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Evan Sanders's avatar

If you have thoughts 💭 I’d love to hear them! I respond to all comments so leave one below. Thank you 🙏🏻

kattiana 𖦹's avatar

man the grief has been just so heavy lately, i definitely needed to see this. thank you 😭

Evan Sanders's avatar

I'm so sorry to hear you're going through it. Big hugs. Glad this helped. If you want to tell me more in the comments please do.

Debra Lee's avatar

What stays in your life is what still has something to teach you.

Healing requires listening to what discomfort is trying to say.

Lessons return until we evolve beyond them.

When you learn, you liberate yourself from patterns that keep you stuck.

Life’s hardest moments are also its greatest instructors.

Awareness transforms pain into progress.

Change doesn’t happen when you run—it happens when you reflect.” Buddah

“Every time I let it go … I repeated the pattern , once I reflected …. Which took several years I found freedom” .

In the First Person's avatar

I am here. I've learned how to catch myself more and more by being present. Ruminating sucks, and finding the way to "come back" and out of it is a great reminder for me to be present. It's a long process to developing new habits while living with the person I'm letting go..., but it's not impossible.

Evan Sanders's avatar

You're definitely building the muscle. Keep on goin'

Sanaa's avatar

I needed to read this, thank you ☺️

Evan Sanders's avatar

Really happy to hear it helped. What resonated with you?

Sanaa's avatar

The whole essay!!

Evan Sanders's avatar

Well thank you! Means a lot!

Keeri's avatar

So beautifully written, thank you I needed this🙏

bugheadnadja's avatar

I refuse to be in bondaged with my past

Ezra's avatar

Thank you so much...I've been needing to hear this for a long time now

Evan Sanders's avatar

I’m so so happy it helped. What really landed with you?